Celebrating 2 Years

Saturday, March 6th we celebrated Magnolia's birthday.

Our little girl LOVES cooking, so we made that the theme for the day.

In the morning the Graceys and Rushes came over for brunch, which consisted of Magnolia favorites: Pancakes with "hiding blueberries", Congo Bacon, Fruit Salad, and Juice.

Then we opened presents. Magnolia still doesn't quite have the idea.

So older cousins Noah and Ella stepped in to help.

After opening lots of play-food presents, she pulled off blankets to reveal her very own kitchen!

She has been making us boiled bread and jelly bean pizza ever since.

After naps, we invited some friends over to play in our *new* family room.

The kitchen was a hit.

So was decorating aprons.

We paused to enjoy cupcakes.

Then returned to playing with the kitchen.

Overall, it was a great day. Thank you to all who helped make it special!

Remembering Magnolia's Birth

If you want to read one of Brian's best short stories, click here.

Maggie-Speak Vocabulary Quiz

After being gone for a month Brian is getting a crash course in Maggie-Speak. More and more of Magnolia's "baby" words are being replaced by the "real" words.

So we thought we'd do a little quiz before they're all gone. Below are some of our favorite Maggie words spelled according to her pronunciation. Post your translation guesses in the comments. We'll post the answers in a few days.

1) beer
2) nah
3) noo-n00
4) go-go s(h)a-s(h)a
5) oh-lo0 choo-choo
6) chin-chin
7) c0-meh
8) pay weh-weh
9) hoohoo soup
10) ape-team

Hint: There are 3 edibles, 4 animals, 1 number, 2 articles of clothing, and 2 verb phrases. We realize that doesn't add up to 10. Some of them do double duty.

Magnolia Turns 2!

Although she doesn't actually have a birthday this year, this week our blog will feature posts in honor of Magnolia passing from "wum" to "two."

Vancouver 2010

Saturday, I braved the rain and headed north to take in the Olympic host city.

As I unloaded the car, Brian ran up behind me. For a minute, I was really scared because I thought he was a homeless man. He says he "forgot" his beard trimmers at home this month.

He, and our friend Blake, had a day off on their last day of working the Olympics and joined us downtown.

Magnolia was thrilled to see her Papa again and spent much of the afternoon snuggling and kissing him.

To which he reciprocated and said our visit was the highlight of his month.

Who Should We Cheer For?

Having dual-citizenship during the Olympics is confusing.

When our countries play each other who do we cheer for?

Do we split time and attire? We'd be guaranteed to come out winners!

...and I guess losers too.

Maybe we should just stay nuetral and cheer for our favorite letter?!

If Blogging Were an Olympic Sport

If blogging were an Olympic sport, I would not be on the podium.


Brian is working as a shuttle driver for the Olympic Sliding Center up in Whistler. Which means my editor/co-writer has been gone for 19 days now and my hands are full with these little monkeys. And hands full of monkeys are not good at typing.


I'm not totally alone. My parents are helping out with the girls, which we really appreciate, but we really miss our Papa.


Trudy and Otis are also stir crazy from missing their late night dog park visits with Brian. I've realized how much of a burden he lifts off me by making sure they're well cared for.


I'm not sure how much Brian's absence is impacting Kaleia, but I can definitely see it in Magnolia, even though she is too young to tell me. For the first week or so she was eager to talk to Papa on the phone. Now she refuses, backing away from the little device muttering "Papa home." Except for the other night, she initiated a pretend phone call to him. When I asked her what Papa said she answered, "Laba you." Melt my heart.

A video message we sent Papa

Then yesterday she was playing with a hollow plastic Easter egg. Maggie looked at me and said, "Papa." What? You popped it open? No, she confirmed, "Papa." While I sat pondering what this piece of plastic had to do with her absent Papa, I watched her open the egg, pretend to remove something from it and bring her fingers to her lips. "Tisses."

My floodgates opened. Memories of Brian giving her kisses for her pockets flew to mind. For the next few minutes she continued to replenish the supply.


I hear about service men and women that are deployed for significant periods of time. Brian met an Olympic luger the other day who hasn't seen his wife and 19-month-old since October. I don't know how families do it. They miss so much. They are so missed.

Our next separation is a short five months away when Brian heads down to California for his summer term in grad school. I don't think I will ever get used to it, but at least I'm learning some strategies to make it more bearable. I think Brian might need to fill a whole basket of those Easter eggs.

Happy 7 Month Birthiversary!

Kaleia Shalom is 7 months old!

These days she:
+ Weighs 17 lbs, 3 oz and is 27.25 inches long
+ Jabbers up a storm, experiementing with sounds and volume
+ Tries to stand up on her own, then lets go to reach for her next destination
+ Prefers Mama and experiences some stranger anxiety
+ Recognizes the sign for milk
+ Eats avocado and sweet potato with minimal tummy trouble
+ Wakes up twice a night (at least!)
+ Laughs at her sister, the dogs, and tickles
+ Gives amazing snuggles into your neck
+ Sits confidently
+ Manuvers well on her tummy, rolling and sliding,
+ Gets into a crawling position, but no crawling -- That is until...

Our Year in Unpublished Pictures - 2009

January

Our new walker turned climber

This book was a favorite all year!

February

"I see a Grandpa looking at me!"

A "pasickie" being cozy

March Fell asleep just as Mama and Papa got the car packed to go out of town

Justin's birthday


April
Emily and Maggie entertaining themselves after church

Magnolia meets Burt Reynolds' ugly brother

This picture reminds us why I normally have facial hair

May

Junkyard Dog never won a WWF championship but Maggie's hoping for a comeback.

Where Brian gets sent when he's bad. (Actually, on a pregnant-Shannon-mandated mission to hunt and destroy all mouse turds)

Bed Blogging

June

Woof! Yap Yap! nnn nnn nnn! Ruff ruff, ruff ruff!

Julio looks at his cage then the bottle brand and knows the milk is not for him

July

Gracey Summer Slammer Slamdown

August

Two Sisters!

Of Aunties and Nieces

Magnolia cites exhibit B to corroborate her argument

September

As Mama headed back this month, there was little time for blogging.

Kaleia checking out Rana.

Surely the other team will be reluctant to shoot hard at a toddler and, we thought, if that doesn't get them, the freakish hands will

Sampling the produce at the farmers' market

Sampling the--zzzzz

Sharing Mona with Trudy

Ripping it up at the Greek Food Festival

Burning off some energy at Camp Firwood

Your HazMat suit is not complete without frog boots.

October

Magnolia answers Bozo's questions about Airedale Terriers

Pah-corn!

November

Getting to know her second cousin

Kaleia is about 3 months older than Titus!

December

The Jingle Bell Run/Walk with Santa, a Reindeer and Three Elves

Bonus Video: Post Race Celebration

Happy Six Month Birthiversary!

Kaleia Shalom is 6 months old!

She's a goof, a cuddler, a melt-your-heart smiler, a roller, a slider, a jump-jump-jumper, a chomper, a grabber, a razor sharp biter, a two-armed reacher, an easy-put-to sleeper, a chatterbox, a sitter-in-training, a disagreeable digester of rice cereal, a belly giggler, and a 15 lb. package of wiggling joy.